Trying to concieve after Vasectomy Reversal

Well, I’ve made it this far, might as well go all the way to Christmas!  I’m done my shopping, my wrapping, my grocery shopping, all the good stuff.  Now we just wait for the day to arrive, and guests!  I’m actually excited for my Dad and his girlfriend to come over and stay the night on Christmas Eve, that will be fun.

The timing is actually perfect for me to get the one thing I really wish for this Christmas, a baby!  My fertile time is now and for a couple more days, I’ll know the week of Jan 5th, if it’s taken this time or not.  That is honestly the only thing I’m wishing for this holiday.  I don’t need or want anything else, except to be a Mom, I’m so ready.

Well, it wasn’t just implantation bleeding, it was my period, 3 days early!  Must be all the stress of late.  Moving into a new home, 2 teenage stepsons, and Christmas, oh and a new job all within a 2 month span.  Yep it’s gotta be stress.  Maybe that’s why I’ve resorted to sharing all of this “stuff” with the rest of the world.

I’m going to try and not focus so much on the little things, and enjoy this holiday season.  I do love Christmas, I love the decorating, the food, the visiting and gift giving.  The time off from work is great too!

I just wish everyone would take a moment and step back and RELAX!  Everyone is in such a rush, I’ve never seen so many red light runners as I do during December.  During a time of giving to those less fortunate, people will run you over and trample you to death to try and save a buck, it’s just awful.  For what?  Do you think your loved one is going to love you any less because you didn’t get them the latest, greatest gift for Christmas? 

I used to spend hours upon hours at malls and stores buying gifts, now I try and make my time at the mall as little as possible.  I think out my gifts well in advance and just like Santa, I make a list and check it twice.  That way it’s a little less stress for me.  Thank goodness for Walmarts being open 24hrs!  I don’t like shopping with the crowds of pushy, rude, over stressed people, so I choose off hours to run in, if I need something, it’s great!

So here I sit in my cozy chair in my new home, with a Christmas tree with lights hung only on the top half so far, ornaments in a box, and a husband who’s not as “into” Christmas as I am.  I’d like to decorate the tree with him, and he doesn’t feel like it.  I have 3 little dogs, who I’m sure if they could would jump at the chance to decorate the tree with me, they are just happy to be with me, they don’t care what we do.

Well, I’m going to sign off for the night, have a good one

Hi There,

Found this site, after searching, yet again, for some sign that this time I might be pregnant!  I’m not a very patient person to begin with, and I’ve been wanting to have a baby for 5 years now.  I’ve just turned 32 years old, so my “clock” is ticking louder than you can imagine!

My husband had his vasectomy reversed in September and the doctor seemed pretty confident that it went well.  Of course they say that.  I would have expected them to check that there was “seed” still moving around in there, but they don’t.  Not for a few months anyways.  My husband is expected to go back to the doctor in 2 weeks for a check up, hopefully he’ll have good news for the Doc!.

 I’m supposed to start my period this Wednesday, however, I have a feeling I won’t be getting it.  I’ve been constipated, tired, and nauseous for the past few days.  This morning I thought it might be worth trying one of those early pregnancy tests, did the test NEGATIVE, then I wiped and I had a bit of blood in my discharge.  (Graphic I know, but if you are on this site, it’s just another day, right?)

My period isn’t due until Wednesday, and I’m always right on schedule, so could this be that implantation bleeding that I have read about?  I don’t know.  All I do know is, I’m so tired, but have so much to do, I have lights up on half the Christmas tree, I guess that’s good, with the whole, glass half full attitude!

 I’m just so impatient, and want to have children so badly.  I was even dreaming about seeing the two lines on the test last night, it was insane.  No such luck yet.

 Well, if you are in the same situation as I am, I would love to hear from you, another woman going through a similar situation would be really great right now.  My husband just doesn’t “get it”.  He has two grown children from his first marriage, and I don’t have children.  Oh yah, and he’s not a woman.  It’s cruel that PMS and pregnancy symptoms can be so similar.  Then there is the whole FALSE negative thing, who thought that would be ok.  You can have a false negative but not a false positive, so keep going and spending tons of money or EPT’s, cause we know you women can’t wait!  I should’ve gone into that line of work, would’ve been rich!

I could go on all day, but I’ll leave you with this for now, hopefully, I’m not the only one out there going through this, it would be great to find a cyber friend out there to talk to and share with.

Ciao for now - should bake or shop or clean or something I guess….ufff!

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