How Did We Get Here?

Lydia has been looking forward to her first sleepover for months.  She’s been very excited about it.  Yesterday she had her tonsils, adenoids and tubes done.  She was such a brave girl and didn’t shed a tear the whole time.  I was very impressed that this hospital waits until the kids are under before they do and IV’s.  That was a big plus.  She had been trying out her dad’s cpap machine so she was ready for the anesthetic mask.

Make a Smilebox scrapbook

My previous post was about Jeff losing his job and how we are dealing with it.  I think this post from http://www.helpothers.org/story.php?sid=12805 sums it up pretty well.

A Child’s Response to Life’s Unexpected Gusts

–posted by Ashly on May 18, 2009

Last spring I was walking in a park. A short distance ahead of me was a Mom and her three-year-old daughter. The little girl was holding onto a string that was attached to a helium balloon.

All of a sudden, a sharp gust of wind took the balloon from the little girl. I braced myself for some screaming and crying.

But, no! As the little girl turned to watch her balloon go skyward, she gleefully shouted out, “Wow!”

I didn’t realize it at that moment, but that little girl taught me something.

Later that day, I received a phone call from a person with news of an unexpected problem. I felt like responding with, “Oh no, what should we do?”  But, remembering that little girl, I found myself saying, “Wow, that’s interesting! How can I help you?”

One thing’s for sure - life’s always going to keep us off balance with its unexpected problems. That’s a given. What’s not preordained is our response. We can choose to be frustrated or fascinated. No matter what the situation, a fascinated Wow! will always beat a frustrated Oh, no.

So the next time you experience one of life’s unexpected gusts, remember that little girl and make it a Wow! experience. The Wow! response always works.

Have FAITH like a child.

This is week three of unemployment for Jeff.  Being “laid off” came as a pretty big surprise and his company didn’t want to do it but they are short on projects for him to work on.  After we got over the initial shock, surprisingly we weren’t all that worried about him finding a new job.   Despite the fact that we were supposed to get an awesome new health plan next month, we had made plans to get some major projects done and we really, really need a vacation.  We’ve been through soo many bumps in the past and everything has always worked out.  So what’s the silver lining?  Jeff is making the most of his time off and taking care of things around the house that have been on the back burner for too long.  He’s helping out with the kids I look after which means I can get out for a wolk with some and leave some home.  I can do things with the older ones that I ordinarily can’t do. ( We went to a Superstore cooking class yesterday)  And he’s able to put in some volunteer hours with the Family Resource Center and the school by giving them some tech support.  You would think things around here would be more more stressful but for now they are pretty relaxed.  We’re dealing with unemployment with a sense of humor and the faith that all our needs will be provided for just like they always have.  There’s always a new experience around the corner.

Faith isn’t the ability to believe long and far into the misty future. It’s simply taking God at his Word and taking the next step. - Joni Erickson Tada -

The past few months, Hannah has mentioned cutting her hair to donate it for a wig.  There are several organizations out there that take real hair and turn it into wigs for kids with cancer.  Hannah’s had long hair since kindergarten and has gotten to the point that she wanted something different.  I think we’re going to send her hair to www.wigsforkids.org 

Here are some photos we took of the big day.

It’s been a while.  A long while since I have posted anything here.  I needed a break.  I’ve been very busy working on a fair for www.sjkid.com  The fair was today and we had roughly 5000 people come out.  It was an awesome day.

Lydia ready for the fair.

Lego display.  It was huge and I wish I had taken the time to get better pictures.  The LEGO guys were awesome, and really friendly.

Dr Bill came and did some explosive science experiments.  The kids were in awe and the stage was sticky.

Some of the crowd…oh wait those are my neices in orange.

And this is my oldest daughter.  She wasn’t born like that.

An awesome performance by Zany Lane  They are local performers that put on a great show.

Some of our awesome volunteers.  They truly were amazing.  Never have I seen a group work so well together.

And this is how we all felt by the end of the day.  Amazing that a small group of moms can pull of such a big event on their first try.

Woohoo.

At one of our craft nights to prepare for Christmas, Cara and I wore our pj’s.  It was just one of those days and we were tired.  Joanne couldn’t wear hers because she didn’t have any suitable ones.  Joe (Superstore) has really nice fleece pjs and they are Cara’s favourite but she couldn’t find them this year.  Last Friday I found them at the Superstore for $8.49.  They didn’t last long as they were gone in a couple of days.     I got all three of us matching jammies.   Here we are at our annual cookie exchange last night.

Lydia decided a while ago that she wanted to buy everyone gum for Christmas.  So today we hit Dollarama and bought lots of gum.  Tomorrow I’ll give her scrap pieces of wrapping paper and some tape and she can go at it.  Should keep her busy while I bake. 

Speaking of independant, yesterday she told me it was time to clean up the kitchen and that I needed to help her.  This morning she told me that the gifts I wrapped last night needed to go under the tree and that I didn’t do it “pawperwy”

I buckled down and got some sewing done last night.

I made a stack of pillowcases last night. 10 pillowcases and 3 gift bags. Need to find the other page to cameron’s cloth book and make a couple more diapers and then I am done sewing. Why I don’t do this earlier, I’ll never know.
Finally figured out a gift for fil, girlfriend and her son. Whoonu- already had it in the gift box, a tin of sweets and some pictures framed.
Other than that, I am finished with gifts.  I’ve finished shopping and ready to wrap.  Tonight is a baking night and I need to label 50 cd’s.  Over the past few weeks, I’ve been recording our circle time at playgroup.  Dh burned it onto cds for me and they’ll be handed out to the kids at the Christmas party and potluck tomorrow.  How cool that they get to take home their own songs to sing along with.

I just got a card from my bestest buddy from Jr high.  Her boys are handsome.  Good thing they live so far away from us.  I might have a problem with Hannah if we saw them more than every few years.

I came across this advice today.  Sounds good to me.

It doesn’t really matter how much you want to accomplish today; your pace will likely be set by circumstances that are beyond your control. The best you can do is remain clear about your abilities and your limitations. If you don’t overcommit, all should work out okay. But if you take on too much, even the simplest jobs could suffer. Pace yourself, work hard, and don’t apologize for what you cannot do

Days until Christmas. 

By now I’ll be in the kitchen, getting the turkey in the oven.  We’re usually up by 5:30.

So does the 2 week crunch send you into a tailspin?

Try this as a destresser

Paint your toes red and go barefoot around the house.  The shiny toes will brighten your day.