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Steal of a Deal

Friday, August 22nd, 2008

Ok so I know I said I don’t do back to school shopping but Hannah needed some new jeans.  I heard there was a great sale at Old navy.  Apparently lots of other people did too because I didn’t find much in the clearance section.  If it’s not under $10, it’s not a deal.  We did get her a black dress and black tshirt.  She needs black clothes for drama.  And a white tank and a pink shirt, all for $16.  The dress was the most expensive at $6.97.  Then we went to the Clothesline.  It’s a new used clothing store, nicer than Frenchies.  For $26 we got

  • a coat sweater for Lydia (jillian’s Closet, they make nice sweaters)
  • a denim skirt for Lydia from Children’s place.  There were a ton of patterned skirts there for her but I’m tired of trying to match things.
  • a top for Hannah
  • a nice Cherokee cardigan
  • 3 pairs of jeans for Hannah, two have adjustable waist
  • a care Bears shirt for Hannah.  

The jeans were the priciest at $3.75 a pair.

Hannah is paying for half the items at Old Navy.  We have a deal where if she is asking for clothing that she doesn’t need, she pays half.  Sure she could use them but it was pants we were on a hunt for.  This prevents her from asking for too much.

Poor Parker didn’t get anything.  I think he still has clothes that we got him 2 years ago and they were too big.  I’ll have to go hunting for them.

XO

Thursday, August 21st, 2008

No I’m not giving you a hug and kiss.  When we found out that Parker would need a computer to help him with his school work, we ordered an XO laptop from One Laptop Per Child.  It’s not a perfect computer and can be frustrating.  Probably not a good option if you don’t have a programmer in the house.  There have been a lot of glitches in it and ours went on the fritz in June.  We finally got it fixed by Jeff’s co-worker. (I need to pay him with a batch of cookies)

So today we were doing some errand running and I had it in the van.  I planned on another playground stop to compensate the kids.  I was fiddling with the laptop while they played since the screen is designed to work in bright sunlight.  I took some pics with it.  There is a camera built in on the right hand side. 

And then we had to leave early because someone was in a bad mood.

Right now Parker is playing a memory math game on it.  We also have Scratch , an animation program on it as well as music synthesizers, a video camera, recorder.

Musical Schools- in a bad way

Thursday, August 21st, 2008

FREDERICTON - Cara Miller is worried about how the province’s recent changes to French second-language education will affect her son.

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Cara Miller says her son Liam, age 5-1/2, will have to switch schools twice in order to attend French immersion classes.

Because of the new system, her shy little boy, Liam, may now have to switch schools twice to participate in immersion classes.

Fresh out of kindergarten, Liam was set to enter Grade 1 at Millidgeville North, an immersion school in Saint John - until Education Minister Kelly Lamrock took the axe to early immersion in grades 1 and 2.

Because it was an immersion-only school, Millidgeville will no longer offer any classes in kindergarten or Grade 1. Grade 2 will be phased out after this year and Millidgeville will permanently become a grades 3 to 8 school.

That means Liam faces two potential moves in his formative years. He has no choice but to switch out of Millidgeville in September in order to complete Grade 1. But the other school in his area, St. John the Baptist, does not offer immersion in any grade - so, in order to enter the program in Grade 3, Liam would be looking at another move, back to Millidgeville.

“My little guy, he’s very quiet,” Miller said. “It takes him a long time to warm up to kids. He was really starting to come out of shell. I’m worried this (move) is going to bring him down and crush him.”

The only other option, Miller said, would be to enroll Liam in a school outside of the family’s region, such as Forest Hills. But the district provides transportation only to the schools designated for each student’s community - in Liam’s case, either Millidgeville or St. John the Baptist.

In addition, such intradistrict transfers would only be accepted if space allowed. Priority is given to children living in the school’s community, said Susan Tipper, superintendent of District 8 in Saint John.

Miller said her situation proves the government moved too quickly to implement reforms to the French second-language program. At the very least, she said, a grandfather clause should be in effect for children such as her son.

“The reasonable thing to do would be to grandfather children who were in (Millidgeville), to allow them to continue in Grade 1 and 2 so they don’t have to be bounced around like that,” Miller said.

Miller is not the only one in this predicament. Michelle Durelle, a single mother who works full-time as a credit granter at Irving Oil, had registered her daughter, Jenna, for kindergarten at Millidgeville.

But in light of Lamrock’s recent decision, Jenna also faces the prospect of being bounced over to St. John the Baptist for her first few years, and then back to Millidgeville for immersion. Jenna had already attended a “welcome to kindergarten” session at Millidgeville, Durelle said, noting the situation is bound to confuse her daughter.

Like Miller, Durelle wants the government to extend a grandfather clause to all students who were attending or were registered to attend Millidgeville in kindergarten or Grade 1.

“I’m kind of in a bind,” Durelle said, noting she had made inquiries to the district about the possibility of an intradistrict transfer, but thus far has heard nothing back. “I’m at the point where “¦ I don’t know what I’m doing with my kid.”

Durelle and Miller say they have accepted Lamrock’s decision to eliminate immersion in the early grades, but both feel strongly that there should have been more notice.

“I realize there has to be a cut-off point; I get that,” Durelle said.

According to Tipper, parents of children who were enrolled in the early grades at Millidgeville are in a unique situation, and not only because of the immersion decision.

A proposal has been on the table since last year to turn Millidgeville into a middle school, housing only Grades 6 through 8, Tipper noted. If that happens, the school would not be capable of offering early immersion in any form.

Currently, all students enrolled in the school from grades 2 through 8 will be allowed to take the program through to graduation, regardless of any future changes, Tipper added.

Those who had completed or registered for kindergarten - the only grade level that was non-immersion - have been transferred to St. John the Baptist starting in September, she said. Tipper agreed this may lead a number of parents to move their students back to Millidgeville after Grade 2, assuming it does not become a middle school.

“That is a potential, because the Grade 3 entry point for immersion is only where numbers warrant,” Tipper said, noting the program has not been warranted at St. John the Baptist in the past. But if demand rises, it could be offered in future, she added.

Intradistrict transfer applications were still being accepted, Tipper said, noting the actual transfers may not occur until mid-September, when student numbers have had a chance to settle down.

Summer or Fall?

Wednesday, August 20th, 2008

It’s a decieving sunny day out there.  It’s very crisp and fall like in the temperature.  I had a couple of errands I wanted to do today ad what’s the best way to do them with three kids in tow?  Promise them something fun.  So we went to the Dreamland Playground at Fairvale Elementary School in Quispamsis.  It’s about 15 minutes from here.

Lydia needs a mei tai for her babies.  The sling gets in the way when you’re trying to have fun.

I tried using the stitch assist feature on my camera but I’m not sure how it works when it’s uploaded to the computer.  It’s a big playground.

Baby Kate wasn’t the least bit scared going in the tunnels.

Wobbly bridges made of rubber.

Caught Ya.

My purple foot.  Now that I am using it more, it keeps bruising in new spots.  Bandage covers most of it.

Together, together, together everyone
Together, together, come on lets have some fun
Together, were there for each other every time
Together together come on lets do this right”

Yes they finally started playing together after the summer camp kids left.  They were making up a song about the tire swing to the tune of the BNL song Allergies.

Time to go.

This morning I read mmummy’s blog.  It was about being happy with what she has.  So today as I drove through Rothesay and Quispamsis, the affluent areas around Saint John, I reminded myself that we have what we need.  That we don’t need a huge house to be happy.  With that comes more expenses and working more.  We’d also need two cars and constantly feel like we had to keep up.  We’ve lost a good friend because of those strong pulls to have material possessions.  We just weren’t in the right circle.  Aside from the crappy weather and being in a construction zone yet again, I love where we live. It’s close to almost everything we need.  Our house suits our needs and dh takes the bus so that I can have the van.  We’ve managed to squeak by the summer without my income and although we didn’t take a vacation, the kids were busy and happy.  It’s a good place to be.

Vintage toys

Tuesday, August 19th, 2008

Isn’t it nice to know that the toys you grew up with are now considered vintage?  I dug out one of my favourite dolls for Lydia, Fisher Price Baby Ann.  Boy did she need a wash.  I’m afraid to put her in the dryer though.  Her hair is already bad enough.

I also have Audrey and the Fisher Price Hospital  http://www.thisoldtoy.com/L_FP_Set/toy-pages/900-999/931-playfmchildrenhospital.html and Snoopy,

His ears got ruined so they were replaced and one of his feet cracked.

Someday when the kids are finished with their toys, I’ll have a display shelf for mine.  I also have a doll that belonged to my mother.  She was in really bad shape.  I used to lug her everywhere and she isn’t small.  One of her eyes was broken and and arm torn, courtesy of my brother and a big chunk missing from teh back of her head.   A few years ago….ok so maybe 11 or 12, my mil had her restored for me.  I’ll get a picture later along with my doll carriage.

Mr Sun

Monday, August 18th, 2008

Mr Sun came out today.  What a rarity.  I had to babysit this morning and then figured we had better hit the beach.  You never know when the fog is going to roll in.  The girls passed the morning with puzzle books.

So off we went with my sprained ankle.  I had been on my feet all morning so I put my foot up on a bucket.  Forgot an extra chair.

Still swollen and I am developing another bruise.  It wasn’t there this morning.

Take Hannah anywhere and she has a book in her hands.  this summer she’s working on Harry Potter and the past three weeks of drama have interfered with her reading time.

Parker working intently on “the hole”.

Teamwork.  Don’t fall in Lydia.

What’s this?  All three working together?

Don’t worry, it didn’t last.

Finally.

Showtime!!

Saturday, August 16th, 2008

The past three weeks Hannah has been going to Inter Action Children’s Theatre Company   Tonight was a final summer performance and it was a collaboration of all the summer camps.  It was held at Imperial Theatre.  Pretty big deal when you’ve only been in the theatre for three weeks.  We’ll be signing her up for the year, one night a week.  It’s definetly something she loves to do. 

At practice-

Performance night-

My videos didn’t turn out so I’ll have to wait for someone to post on facebook.  Next performance- Peter Pan in May.

I can walk!

Saturday, August 16th, 2008

So Thursday night I had a bad fall and sprained my ankle.  Friday morning I went to the hospital to have it checked.  I could barely put any weight on it and I couldn’t move more than my toes.  I tried using a cane that we have in the house but it’s the wrong size.  We were going to go get crutches this morning but I think I can get by without them.  I spent yesterday afternoon and evening in bed and this morning it feels much better.  If I have a lazy weekend and keep it up as much as possible, by Monday, it should be usable.  Good thing I have a whole season of House downloaded.  I knew I was saving it for a special occasion.

Ready, Set, Go

Friday, August 15th, 2008

Yesterday I made a quick stop at Walmart.  I didn’t have the money to buy school supplies but I thought I’d put it on layaway.  Mil usually takes the kids shopping and while we haven’t firmed up our plans, I thought this would speed up the process.  In just under 40 minutes, I had most of Parker’s school supplies, found him sneakers (last pair), socks for Hannah and a jacket for Hannah(last one).  Not too bad.

I found these pencils for Parker.  They are triangular and have a nice rubbery finish on them to help him with his grip.  They’re great for primary students too. They were $3.97 for 6 at Walmart but I later found them for $.98 at Giant tiger.

I also scored nice big roomy lunchbags.  I like a big one so they can take pretty much anything in it.  I need to pick up new sandwich containers at Dollarama    By using them, I’ve reduced the sandwich bags to about 1 box every six months instead of every couple of  grocery orders.

In my finds lately I also picked up a paper organizer.  Our house gets very cluttered and bogged down in paper.  Often we’re scrambling to find the homework that got moved but not put in the bag or the lost permission slip.  We’re short on space too so I’ve started utilizing the back of our front door.  Last year it was a place to dry mittens with magnetic clips.  Here’s my school zone.

 

The mesh basket will be for Hannah, Parker and mail.  Like my calendar?  There wasn’t enough room on the fridge for it.  The bulldog clips hold hats and mitts.  I’m going to pick up cheap character pencil cases for the kids for their lunch money, permission slips and book orders.  They can also go on the door.  I need a magnetic cup for pens and then I think I am all set.

Anyway, I’m just about ready to send the kids back to school.  Good thing I did that shopping before I sprained my ankle.

Life with a three year old

Wednesday, August 13th, 2008

is so much fun.  It’s almost worth the tantrums and sauciness.  Ok, it is.

On Monday Lydia and I had a visit from Kerem.  MIL and SIL were taking Emma out too do some school shopping and hey, how much fun is that with a two year old brother?  We don’t see them often and the last time Kerem was here was when sil needed to have a hole drilled in her head.  That’s a long story.

Isn’t he cute?  He’s such a good boy.

They had a great time together.

Lydia showed him how poop goes in the potty.

After Kerem left, I was scrambling to get ready to pick up Hannah.  Lydia got herself ready.

OK, that is not a going out of the house outfit.

And after a shower, my self sufficient girl likes to do her own hair.

She is just so much fun,.  She makes us laugh all the time.  The tantrums aren’t as often as they were and she now knows what follows one.  An apology and a cuddle.





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