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Oompa Loompa Wisdom

Sunday, August 31st, 2008

We watched Charlie and the Chocolate Factory (the original) today.  I don’t really watch movies with the kids.  Dh usually does and I take advantage of the peace and quiet.  I came to a couple of conclusions.  It’s a very twisted story and I think some drugs had to be involved in the making of the movie.  Oompa Loompas are smart.  Here are the lyrics to one of the songs:

Oompa Loompas:

Oompa Loompa doompadee doo

I’ve got another puzzle for you

Oompa Loompa doompadah dee

If you are wise you’ll listen to me

What do you get from a glut of TV?

A pain in the neck and an IQ of three

Why don’t you try simply reading a book?

Or could you just not bear to look?

You’ll get no

You’ll get no

You’ll get no

You’ll get no

You’ll get no commercials

Oompa Loompa Doompadee Dah

If you’re not greedy you will go far

You will live in happiness too

Like the Oompa

Oompa Loompa doompadee do

Crackerjack doctors

Saturday, August 30th, 2008

Two weeks ago I had a nasty fall and sprained my ankle.  The next morning I went to the ER and had xrays done and my ankle wrapped.   I spent a weekend in bed watching House and relaxing.  By Monday I was feeling much better and I could walk decently.  I took the kids to the beach a couple of times and managed a yoga class.  I had to modify a few poses but it wasn’t bad.  Most days my ankle id fine until the end of the day and the many shades of purple are finally leaving.  Yesterday i got a call from the ER doctor telling me that my xray showed a fracture and I needed to come back in.  Dh was helping his mom for the day so I went this morning.  Same doctor is on and he showed me where the fracture is, tells me how horrible the brace is that I am using and insists on me getting a cast put on.  Fortunately the ortho nurse was handy and helped me convince the doctor that a cast at this point would be of no use to me.   Given my history with my back, I could spend a couple of months undoing the damage that a cast would do to my back.   The doctor walks away and starts writing up a prescription for my crutches and instructions for my cast.  What the heck???? Was he not here for the conversation 2 seconds earlier?  The doctor has his back to me and I can see the ortho guy shaking his head.  The doctor comes back and I tell him that I am not getting a cast.  So he sends me to get it strapped again and is refering me to an ortho clinic.  The ortho guy asks me where I got my fabulous brace because it fits so well.  Walmart!!! He sends me off without wrapping it and saying that sometimes the ER  tends to overtreat.  Ya think?

I have to wonder where these doctors are getting their medical degrees.  last fall I had one do xrays of my spine because I had a severe kidney infection.  He told me that I had the spine of a 60 yr old and if I didn’t look into alternative therapies, I was going to end up in a wheelchair.  The radiologist said there was nothing to note on my xray.  Beware the ER doctors.  If you ever need to know the scoop on a doctor, just ask your pharmacist.

Wishing I could help

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Do you ever have a time when you just want to make things all better for someone?

I have a friend who is going through such turmoil right now and there’s  not much I can do to help.  I really want to fix the issues at hand and knock some sense into some people.  It seems that the more honest you are, the more you get punished for going about things the right way.  I wish the whole situation was sorted out because it really isn’t fair and she doesn’t deserve this agony.

Finally some answers…

Thursday, August 28th, 2008

Today Parker has an appointment with a pediatric neurologist.  We’ve started the process of having him assessed a year and a half ago and the referral for the neurologist went in last year at the end of September.  It took me calling to get the appontment.  Otherwise we’d still be on the waiting list.  The school psychologist  diagnosed him with dysgraphia and beleives there might also be dyspraxia.  That would tie all his physical and speech challenges together and make sense of everything.

Bugs and Boys

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

The kids haven’t had many days this summer where we haven’t had something to do or somewhere to go.  this afternoon I kicked them out of the house and Parker actually amused himself.  He played with his Formula Fuelers and then caught a grasshopper.

You know those horrible baby facecloths that come in towel sets?  the ones that are good for nothing?  I found a use.  A breathable top for the mason jar.

Poor Lil Girl

Wednesday, August 27th, 2008

Lydia has had a fever since Monday night.  She’s pretty good about fighting off bugs and i think she’s only ever had one antibiotic.  that’s a far cry from her brother.  For him it was a part of daily life.  Last summer she had a febrile seizure which was pretty scary but she’s just had the one.  So last night when dh got home, I went o yoga.  Just as the class was winding down, my phone rang.  He said he wouldn’t call before 6:30.  It was 6:33.  Lydia was in a panic and he couldn’t calm her down.  I think she was scared she was going to throw up which she hates doing.  I came home and we climbed into bed together since the rest of the clan was watching Harry Potter.  She wanted to practice her letters.

Today she’s still runing a fever off and on and she’s now been asleep for 4 hours.  but that’s usually how she kicks whatever is ailing her.  I hope she’s back to herself tomorrow.

To Go or Not To Go…to kindergarten

Tuesday, August 26th, 2008

DELAYED DEBUT: NO ACADEMIC EDGE

No real advantage to starting kindergarten later, study finds

SARAH BOESVELD

August 26, 2008

You want your child to be smarter, faster and stronger than the rest in the big, bad sandbox that is kindergarten. For some parents, holding them back at home an extra year may seem like a good idea.

But waiting to send Junior to school won’t give him much of a boost in the long run - at least not academically - according to findings from a recent study.

Researchers from the University of Illinois found that while older kindergarten students naturally do better on academic tests, that edge wears off over time and virtually disappears by Grade 8.

A child’s delayed debut into the education system also means he or she will get a job later in life and retire later, putting pressure on the work force and the already-suffering economy, says study co-author Todd Elder, now a professor at Michigan State University.

 ”They’ve in some sense lost a year of their life. They’re going to graduate college at 23 and 22. There doesn’t seem to be much benefit,” he says of the findings, to be printed in an upcoming issue of the Journal of Human Resources.

“The problem is, now people are maybe pushing it a little far and you can imagine people continuing to push it until you have eight-year-old kindergartners and it sort of doesn’t matter how smart he actually is.”

These kids are also learning a lot more before entering kindergarten, making them much more advanced than their peers, he says.

Using data from national academic surveys that tested kindergartners on their math and reading abilities, Dr. Elder and study co-author Darren Lubotsky, an economics professor at the University of Illinois, tracked the academic performance of kids from kindergarten to Grade 8. They saw that older kids were performing much better than younger students initially, but they eventually merged with their peers through elementary and middle school.

Dr. Elder hopes lawmakers will take notice of his findings - more U.S. states are ramping up the age requirement for students starting kindergarten. In 2002, nearly 21 per cent of five-year-olds were not yet enrolled in kindergarten, a boost from 10 per cent in 1980, the study says.

“If you’re basically holding a kid out of school early on, if the cost of that is you have to work more later, that really resonates with people,” he said.

The study also found teachers are more likely to diagnose younger kids with behavioural problems such as ADHD because they appear less mature beside the older kids.

“The youngest kids are getting diagnosed with ADHD; they’re getting medicated, and that, I think, is really scary to a lot of people,” he said, pointing to studies that link diagnoses of behavioural disorders with a child’s age. “I think there’s this notion that disorders like that are somewhat more subjective than other things.”

Robert Cooper, founder of the AD/HD Foundation of Canada, says these kinds of misdiagnoses happen all the time.

“If you’re at an age where you haven’t matured yet, and being compared, then obviously there’s going to be an appearance of ADHD which might go away in six months,” he said.

Sarah Ingalls of Saint John, N.B., waited a year to send her son Parker, now 8 - not to give him that extra edge, but because she felt he wasn’t ready. Small for his age, Parker was eventually diagnosed with a learning disability, but he fitted in just fine with his younger peers.

“I can’t see people holding their child back, though, without a reason. I know when we moved to New Brunswick [from Prince Edward Island], people were astounded we would hold him back a year,” she said. “It came to a point where he was saying, ‘Hi, my name is Parker, I’m 5 and I don’t go to school.’ ”

But the mother of three doesn’t regret her decision to wait.

“You never regret holding them back, but you may regret sending them when they aren’t ready.”

Smartest City vs. Dumbest City

Monday, August 25th, 2008

So in February Fredericton was named one of the world’s most intelligent cities.  tp://www.fredericton.ca/en/citygovernment/2008feb19NewZealand.asp

I have nomination for one of the world’s dumbest cities.  Saint John!!!  Yes it’s where I live.  I called the city today to complain about my brown water.

I went to brush my teeth and that’s what i was faced with.  Yuck.  We’ve had three boil orders since winter.  we pay $675 a year for our lovely city water that we can’t drink and then about $400 a year for the water that we buy.  That’s expensive.  So the city worker that came to check the water today said that maybe it was from the construction.  The construction that is nearby is work on the road and natural gas pipeline, not water mains.  If they had something to do with the water supply, don’t you think you should look into it before they quit for the day?  Then I get a call from the city.  They were flushing the hydrant on our street and that’s what was causing it.  Um no.  I live at the bottom of our street.  It’s on a hill.  Any water from the hydrants would go in the storm sewer by my driveway.

My other issue- why the heck would you tear up the street and sidewalk in front of a school mid August?  they had all summer to do it.  I really can’t see how parents are going to be able to drop their kids off unless they satry working around the clock.  The machines are idle more than they are working.  I can see it out my kitchen window and what a mess.

Just a couple of my pet peeves today.

Magic Beach Trick

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

I forgot to post about this amazing tip.  A few years ago I had heard that you can use baby powder to rid your fet of sand when leaving the beach.  I would always forget to try it and be reminded on the drive home with sand between my toes.  Ick.  I was tidying cupboards in the bathroom and found a travel size bottle of baby powder.  Yesterday I took it with us and Lydia was a mess when it was time to go.  Salt water just helps the sand stick to your skin.  I always take a dress for Lydia to cahnge inot so I can change her right on the beach or at the van and she still has privacy.  I slipped her dress over her head, sprinkled some powder in my hand and rubbed it over her sticky sandy body.  Wipe down with a towel and TaDa, you’d never know she was at the beach….except for her hair.  By the time we went out for supper and to Walmart, her hair had dried and she had rings of salt around her ponytails.

     = a clean kid

FYI, public health does not recomend the use of baby powder.  Be very careful not to use it in the wind or let young children inhale it.

Mmmmmmmm

Saturday, August 23rd, 2008

So far we’ve had a great weekend.  Tomorrow is Jeff’s birthday.  The kids and I managed to surprise him with Mario Kart  for the Wii and noone spilled the beans.  I almost managed to surprise him with a super special desert…..but I left the recipe out.  I made Peanut Butter Pie 

Now as a rule, I only like peanut butter in sandwiches, on hot dogs and on apples.  (The hot dog thing started as a dare at Camp Seggie but I really do like it as long as it’s smooth. Oh and crunchy on the apple slices.)  Back to the pie.  It was delicious, Jeff was impressed and I liked it as well.  Enough that I’ve been resisting the urge to go get another piece out of the freezer.

This afternoon Hannah was performing in East Point Has Talent 

 

She may not be the most talented kid in the contest but she wrote her song herself when she was 9 and she sings it acapella.  Here she is singing it at school.  That was a few months ago and she’s a lot more confident now.  that’s what this whole experience was about, gaining confidence and having fun doing what she loves to do..

After the performance, Grammy took Hannah and I shopping for some clothes.  Thanks Grammy.  We found some awesome deals at Roots and Cotton Ginny.  Cotton Ginny has an extra 50-70% off.  I may have to go back.  Then we came home and had a nice dinner, Parmesan Chicken Twists with veggies and pasta salad, with Grammy and birthday desert. Mmmm.

What’s in store for the rest of the weekend?  Most likely the beach.  It’s supposed to be sunny and 22, although I heard 28C earlier.  There’s also a kids fair tomorrow so maybe we’ll do that.





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