So tonight, while I sit here with sore fingers and a need for a cold beer, I thought I’d share some thoughts on what life is really like for us right now. Weekdays are chaotic. The morning starts off with James trying to get the kids up and at em so they can get their breakfast out of the way, so that they are out of the way, so that I can make lunches for them, all this takes place at the kitchen table in the corner of the livingroom, I would say please excuse the Saturday night mess, but this is actually how we are living right now 

Inevitably they do not get downstairs in time and are therefore trying to get their breakfast made while I make lunches, when there really is not room for everyone in that small space behind the chairs.

I remind them to feed their cats and fish…. get their bags packed and their stuff together….. My friend’s daughter gets dropped off around 8 and they all walk to school after I yell for about 5 mintues to get all their stuff and GO!!!!!! James leaves around the same time for work. After they leave I get the only hour or so of peace in my day, which I spend online or reading (although Friday morning I put a coat of primer on the walls). Then I am off to work…..
After work I try to figure out what to cook in the microwave for supper (this is getting very old btw, I don’t think I’ll use the new microwave after the kitchen is finished for at least a good month!) Then I have to actually cook it…. then round up the children who are off playing with friends. After we eat there is homework and home reading and getting the kids ready for bed, around 9 James and I are sanding or mudding or painting or cleaning up the mess we made. By 9:30 I am so ready to be done….. But we usually go till 10 or so. Then I get to read in bed for a few minutes until my eyes are so tired I can’t remember the last few pages I read. Unless James bugs me for some “attention” which I’m being very begrudging about lately, I mean, haven’t I worked enough already?????
I’m FREAKING exhausted!
Weekends are spent trying to fit in as much work as humanly possible. This weekend is a long one so there is one extra day to get stuff done! Painting and hopefully some cabinets built and installed, they are still sitting in boxes on the other side of the livingroom… yes that’s my last cross stitched project stacked haphazardly on top. I haven’t touched it in 5 weeks and it’s probably covered in drywall dust *sigh*

Being the weekend I should also try to find time to do regular chores like bathrooms, laundry, vacuuming…. but they usually end up forgotten or set aside till “later”. This is weekend three I haven’t cleaned bathrooms, I REALLY need to do that tomorrow, I think there is stuff growing under the rim of the toilet seats by now *shudder* I told myself I’d do them Saturday, but it’s now 11 pm and there is no way it’s happening today. Hopefully tomorrow, or a least by Monday right? Last week Keely had to wear a pair of my socks to school because of the laundry procrastination….. I am doing absolutely no dusting, what would be the point???? Weekend meals are haphazard at best, frozen Eggos or cereal for the kids for breakfast, last night’s left over pizza for lunch, pizza or bbq’d burgers for supper.
Sunday night James and I collapse exhaused dreading having to get up for work the next morning because we really didn’t get any rest. But onward and upward right?
We got the first coat of GREEN on the kitchen walls tonight! We are working together really well and there doesn’t seem to be any strain on the marriage yet, except for the whole Michele is too tired for sex part
We are really proud of the quality of our work, our drywall job rocks!
…….so I have convinced James to reach over and open the fridge from his seat right next to it and grab me a beer, kind of a bonus of the reno, having a fridge in the livingroom
I am off to drink it now.
Happy Thanksgiving!!! I’ll have more pictures Monday!