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So I was having an alright morning.. minus the lack of sleep… So forgive me if I’m grumpy… Then the phone rang…

I always hesitate to answer calls I don’t know… I shouldn’t have picked up this one… It was the Sherriff… He had something for me… Ick!

Apparently my Ex… The invisibale man.. has decided to take off his cape (maybe to wash it)

The Background…

Recently I took him to court for more money…Not because I’m greedy, but because I feel that if he’s not going to visit he should at least pay a higher amount…Call it punishment…He was 26 when he knocked up a 17 yr old… Then left her to raise the child alone… I’ve always told him I would ask for nothing, if he visited, or at least helped out…

The Foreground…

He’s claiming Undue hardship.. The stupid F*’er now has 3 other children to support… Not my problem.. he should have learned his lesson with the first…

Apparently his reason for claiming hardship is that his current wife does not work, and he cannot afford to pay for her, and their two children…Again NOT my problem… I work @ a sh*tty little bar, for min. wage, and $2 tips so that I can feed my DD.  His wife can do the same.  

Apparently his reason for not seeing his DD is because it costs too much… NOT my problem… He could call collect on her BD, or at x-mas… I WOULD except the charges.  He has been home to visit (he lives in BC - although I just found that out) and when he’s home, he makes no effort to get out of his car when we walk by… I don’t understand how much it costs to open a frigg’n door… (Sorry, us bluenoser get a thicker accent when we’re p*ssed)

Apparently he’s got another child who he has to pay support to… Maybe he should have gotten fixed when the child support started to add up…

Apparently he just bought himself a new car… I walk.. I wish i could afford a car.

GRRRRR… He makes me soooo mad!!! And you know i probably could deal with all of this, if it wasn’t for his wife. When she comes home to visit (he can afford to send her) She brags about all of *his* money she’s spending… @ my bar…while I’m working…Get an F’N job!  Nor would I be so mad if he wasn’t in arrears… I’m sure the court won’t be happy to hear that…. I can’t wait to see him there… Maybe I’ll bake him cookies again… With Breastmilk like i did last time… He thought they were good cookies ;)

Get’em Tier!!!

3 Responses to “Grrr… I hate my Ex!!”
 

Gosh, I feel for you. Take care of yourself and your child. Good luck in court too!

tracy wrote on April 8th, 2008 at 10:12 am

 

i use to have days like that too! some guys just never grow up!

miscouchemommy wrote on April 8th, 2008 at 7:30 pm

 

As long as i don’t go into labour in court i’ll be fine (i’m due May 18)… The venting helped relieve the steam…a little. Thanks Mamas!

calendula wrote on April 9th, 2008 at 12:58 pm

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