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A Teen’s Messy Room - Don’t sweat the small stuff!

These pictures are not the least bit staged. I walked in her room today with my camera and took these pictures in less than a minute. They tell a story. She’s actually quite organized and occasionally decides to clean her room on her own and does a great job. Problem is, it only stays that way for day. Once in a while I actually insist she do it, but why waste my breath? As a mom, I have more important issues to address!

On top of that, she’s a busy person with a lot on her mind, and I respect that. Her room is not a fire risk or health hazard - so why sweat the small stuff?

My advice to others - If your teens messy room is driving you crazy - close the door!

The view from her door:

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Her bed, with our dog Molly on it:

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Her dresser, oh brother!

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Her desk - actually not that bad…

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A random shot of the floor. Cleats, helmet, football (where’d that come from?), and various clothes items

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Like I said, she’s organized to a degree, at least she tries…

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Her room doesn’t have a closet so she stores and piles clothes here

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Another random floor shot… the green garbage bag’s been there for a couple weeks. It’s full of last years notes and papers destined for demolition!

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Hollywood Studio for Teens

This work-ation is exciting and fun for sure but I need to get home soon so I can get some rest! Our days begin at 6am and are filled with adventure, in between squeezing some regular work, then back to our rooms around 10 pm and directly back on my laptop until midnight or 1am. Although being super early - Disney even adds magic to their morning wake-up calls! They vary every day but this morning Mickey himself was on the line, wishing me another “Magical Day”. How can anyone be grumpy with a message like that?

We had some free time this afternoon and decided to check out another theme park - Hollywood Studio. As a mother of teens, I’m pretty darn sure this would be my kids favourite. Just walking through the streets, without even going on any of the attractions is pure FUN. The park is set up to resemble various movie sets with charming surprises around every corner. The detail is amazing.

My favourite ride? The Rockin Rollercoaster starring Aerosmith. Upon entering your limo, music by Aerosmith is blasted through speakers within your head rest. The fastest ride at Disney, you blast off reaching 60mph in 2.8 seconds! Mix that with the lights (and darkness) , and you’ll experience an adrenaline rush like no other. What did I do when I got off the ride? I turned right around and went back on it a second time! The ride is very fast, but smooth, making it much easier on us adults! If you can sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride, your teen will be impressed!

A few other tips for parents of teens while you’re at any Disney Theme Park:

1. Disney is a relatively safe place to allow your teen some freedom. Depending on their age, use this experience to experiment with their freedom by allowing them to separate from you and do their own thing for agreed upon amounts of time.  Start by letting them run ahead to grab fast passes for the entire family!

2. Develop their organizational skills by making them responsible for their own belongings while in the park.

3.  Use this vacation to work on their budgeting skills. Make them responsible for their own money and when it’s gone, it’s gone. Before you leave, ask them to write down and plan how they would like to spend their money. Talk to them about avoiding impulse buying and prepare them for the heavy duty merchandising they will encounter at the end of each ride!

Here I am (center) after going on the Rockin RollerCoaster twice:

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Feelin the Magic…

I’m a Disney newbie and have to admit, I was a skeptic on top of that. Having never vacationed here with my own children, when the opportunity arose for this working holiday, I was riddled with pangs of guilt. How could I possibly enjoy myself without my own kids? What about all those long line-ups I’ve heard about?

Enter the Magic Kingdom. As we came upon Main Street, with the castle off in the distance, I wasn’t prepared for the shivers I felt from head to toe. All of a sudden I got it. I could feel the magic in the air. The adorable buildings, the hustle and bustle, the smiling faces… I had fallen under the Disney magic spell. I was enchanted by the charm from head to toe.  Going from attraction to attraction, it dawned on me that the Magic Kingdom is so much more than rides and line-ups. It’s an experience. It’s an opportunity to become a child once more, and let your imagination allow you to smile and giggle at the charming surprises around every corner.

My favourite experience in Magic Kingdom was…
…..  not one of those big name rides. It was Mickey’s PhilharMagic in the FantasyLand area - often referred to as a hidden gem I am told. Wearing special opera glasses, this 3D animation was a dazzling spectacle that kept me giggling and grinning from ear to ear. Characters literally jump out at you… aromas seep from the screen (including freshly baked apple pie), champane bottles burst open as you smell the fresh sparkling bubbles and feel a light mist hit your face. And the list goes on and on. I felt like a little kid. When it ended all I wanted to do was get back in line and see it again and again! If I’m having so much fun, what must it be like for real children? This might just be one of the happiest places on earth.

Eating Mickey’s ears (and being a kid) while waiting for the parade to begin:

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Modeling Mickey’s ears (and being a kid):

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Mother & Daughter Gingerbread House Decorating Party

This annual event always puts us in the Christmas spirit, big-time! Jen and I meet up with old friends - other mother and daughter teams - and we spend the afternoon and evening hanging out, eating, and then do some serious decorating. We all buy the exact same pre-made house, usually from the Super Store or Sobeys. Each mother and daughter brings their own ideas and decorations, then it’s one, two, three - GO!

These girls have been good friends since they were toddlers. This year we decided that even though most will be in university next year, wwe’ll always keep up the tradition. Maybe some day it will be grandmothers, daughters, and granddaughters!! (yikes!!)

Here are some of the highlights:

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Filling in Some Gaps

Where does the time go? Things happen and I have such great intentions of getting them logged in here, one thing leads to another, and I end up forgetting. Years from now, this blog will be the best record of events for our family, so I at least have to get in the big stuff, and then work on filling in the blanks and being more diligent in 2009.

My middle son Bobby had his picture with a cool write up in the paper. He’s taking after his mom with an entrepreneurial spirit that is turning into a very valuable experience.  Read the full article here.  Or read below:

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Bob Keleher, left, and Simon Pearn, University of New Brunswick undergraduate students, won first place in the UNB CIBC business plan competition for their business start-up Power Washing Solutions.

What started as a summer job painting homes has morphed into a fledgling company that propelled two University of New Brunswick undergraduate students to first place in last week’s UNB CIBC business plan competition in Fredericton.

Going door to door in his hometown of Rothesay as a franchisee with College Pro Painters in 2007, Bob Keleher noticed many of the homes had vinyl siding. Although the houses didn’t need a coat of paint, they could sure use a good washing, Keleher said.

By the end of the summer him and his best friend, Simon Pearn, we’re making extra back-to-school cash by going door to door and offering to pressure wash homes.

Fast-forward to the summer of 2008 and the two business students and budding entrepreneurs obtained a $3,000 seed loan from Enterprise Saint John, purchased their own power washing equipment, obtained liability insurance and registered their company name, Power Washing Solutions.

Armed with a rock-solid business plan backed up with market research and an appealing profit margin, Power Washing Solutions wooed the judges and swept the competition at the UNB CIBC business plan competition, winning the top prize of $5,000.

“The judges grilled us pretty hard during the practice rounds,” Keleher said. “But we applied all the changes. We added more details about our financials and we cleaned up our PowerPoint slides.

“We also cleaned ourselves up for the competition,” added Pearn. “They told us stuff like ‘Don’t stand in front of each other, keep your hands out of your pockets, and wear your dress shoes and a suit tomorrow.”

Drawing on the judges’ advice, Pearn and Keleher nailed the competition, which included a 12-minute presentation and eight minutes of questions and answers.

“Their ability to present themselves and their idea was extremely compelling,” said Jeff Gray, district branch manager for CIBC New Brunswick and one of the judges. “They worked well as a team and they had good props to present their plan. But it was their ability to sell the business idea that was so superior to the other teams.”

While the business plan presentation has been compared to the CBC television show Dragon’s Den, where entrepreneurs pitch ideas to business experts in hopes of securing an investment, Gray said the UNB CIBC judges are a bit less ruthless.

“We ask them tough questions but our goal is to make them learn,” he said.

The competition is a training ground for our entrepreneurs, said Gray, adding that many of the students will likely go on to launch successful businesses that will employ New Brunswickers and have spinoff effects in the economy.

“It was my first year as a judge and it was an absolutely invigorating experience,” he said. “These young students are like sponges. They are so open to learning - the enthusiasm and energy is infectious.”

Although the UNB CIBC Business Plan Competition is in its sixth and final year, there is a proposal being considered to keep the competition going, he said.

-Telegraph-Journal, Friday, December 5,2008

Footloose!!

Question: As a mother, if your daughter had one of the the lead roles in her High School musical that played for 3 nights, how many nights would you attend?

All 3, plus the dress rehersal you say? Good. I don’t feel so bad. How could I not be there every single night while my baby girl was singing her heart out on stage?Gosh, it was fun!!  Not only was yours truely there but various friends and family members drove from afar each night. I even hosted an “after show” get-together one night. Can we do this again next year Jen? Huh?? Here are a few snaps from the event. Footloose, RNS, 2008:

Locker room scene: Jen is second from the left

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A fight breaks out. Jen is holding on to her boyfriend:

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Arms raised in church scene:

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Singing with the girls:

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A Fall Day

Even though my kids are older now, as soon as fall comes they ask when we’re going to do our yearly apple picking/picnic day trip. It’s really become one of our favourite family traditions. Each year the drive takes my breath away and I marvel at how gorgeous the fall countryside is here in New Brunswick. It’s a real family and extended family time too as we invite whatever relatives can come along. Since I’m such a scrapbooker, I take a ton of pictures. Here are a few:

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This is all of us at the U-Pick in Gagetown

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A view along the way.

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Me and Jen and our dog Molly

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Rick and I

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At the picnic spot

Another day aquatic…

I’m writing this blog tonight as I watch the US democratic convention. For some reason, I have this secret (but not so secret now) addiction to the coming election, and to be more specific, my pal Barack.

However, as most of you know, we take every opportunity we can to spend time with our teenage kids having fun. It’s getting tougher all the time as they’re each so involved in their own lives. Summer jobs, concerts, sleeping in, and hangin out friends often take understandable priority at this stage in their lives.

This past weekend we had some of the best weather of the summer and took advantage of getting out on the boat to explore more of our river system. We also took our dog Molly with us… she seemed to enjoy herself too!

We pulled up to an island where we saw a beaver building a dam. Bobby jumped off the boat to check it out:

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Jen explored the island on with Molly her own way:

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Cruisin’ along

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Bobby:

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Life Aquatic

This is our first summer on the water with a boat. We named the boat after the movie, Life Aquatic. We wonder whatever took us so long to realize just how much we enjoy being on the river. It’s makes for great family times when you have teenagers.

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Animal Vegetable Miracle

I’m sad to say that I’m almost finished this book - Animal Vegetable Miracle by Barbara Kingsolver. I love to read, but had been going through an odd *dry spell*, not being able to sink my teeth into anything more than a magazine article for months.

My aunt Myffie, who lives in California recommended this book, written by Barbara Kingsolver, author of Poisonwood Bible - one of my all time faves. I ordered it a while back but didn’t open it until I was away from home (fishing) and actually had some extra time on my hands.  I was hooked from the very first page.

She is truly an excellent writer. I think Barbara can take almost any topic and just make you want to keep reading, but this time, she really peaked my interest.  Totally nonfiction,  she elegantly chronicles a year of back-to-the-land living with her family. Not only does she make you laugh, she makes you think, and even more importantly, she makes you learn. I knew our food chain was screwed up, but she does a thorough job of explaining just how bad things are.

Here’s more about the book:
Hang on for the ride: With characteristic poetry and pluck, Barbara Kingsolver and her family sweep readers along on their journey away from the industrial-food pipeline to a rural life in which they vow to buy only food raised in their own neighborhood, grow it themselves, or learn to live without it. Their good-humored search yields surprising discoveries about turkey sex life and overly zealous zucchini plants, en route to a food culture that’s better for the neighborhood and also better on the table. Part memoir, part journalistic investigation, Animal, Vegetable, Miracle makes a passionate case for putting the kitchen back at the center of family life and diversified farms at the center of the American diet.

Rick’s going to read it next, but if anyone local would like to borrow it afterward, please let me know. Click on the book to order it from Chapters.

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